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Saturday, July 21, 2007

Get It Right On The First Date

Here are some gaffes to avoid....
Love may touch your hearts at a very tender age or at a later mature stage. Whatever be the age you may desire for the presence of your loved one after some formal love exchanges.
However many will have butterflies in their stomachs as they think of their first date. Most of the lovers may not even know how to ask their sweetheart to come out for a date.
Here are some interesting aspects that you can follow to make your first date a success for a life time. Any person will be thrilled to receive an invitation for a first date from their loved one. You can call your love casually and ask "Can you come out with me tomorrow?"
However, if your love is a shy person things are going to become different. During your usual chats ask her/his favourite places to visit and ask whether you can spend some time with her/him there.
On the other hand, you can also list out your favourite hangout places and tell your lover that it is your dream to spend some time with her/him there.
Never ask your love to meet up for a short time if they are out for shopping or some personal calls. If your love is not interested in the place selected by you; be open to accept the place selected by your lover.
On the other hand, never criticise or cringe about the place selected by your partner. After all you need his/her presence than the ambience of the meeting place.
There are some serious mistakes that you must avoid while asking your sweetheart for a first date. If your he/she denies the invitation at the first instance, never lose heart. She/he may be shy and you must give the power to come out of the shell.
At the same time, you can also find out the true reason for which your love has denied the first dating invitation.
Asking your love for a first date may be easy by this time. Yet many lovers face great dilemmas to start a conversation when they meet each other.
The best way to avoid this embarrassing situation is to start discussing the common interested topics before you meet each other.
You may not have to put a serious conversation on your first date. At the same time do not entertain too many friends' calls or messages to bore your love. Be the first person to start the conversation and always try to keep it humourous and lively.

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